Former Bafana Bafana player and current TS Galaxy head coach Bernard Parker has dropped a bombshell about his personal life, including that he has a relationship with another woman, who is not his wife, Wendy Parker.
The retired Kaizer Chiefs player also confessed to having an “addiction” that has impacted his life and loved ones.
The shock statement comes on the eve of TS Galax’s clash against Orlando Pirates on Tuesday, 13 October.
BERNARD PARKER DROPS BOMBSHELL STATEMENT
On his social media platforms, Bernard Parker posted a statement announcing his split from a woman named Kacha Stepanovic.
The 40-year-old claimed to have been in a three-year relationship with the businesswoman, who is the ex-wife of Teargas member Ntukza, also known as Bantu Hanaba.
Bernard – who has two sons with wife Wendy Parker – admitted to having six children, whom he would continue to coparent with Kacha.
Bernard Parker hinted at having been unfaithful to Kacha, who is half Serbian.
He shared: “I want to be honest about my part in our journey. I have made mistakes and struggled with personal addictions that have affected my life and the people I love.
“Kacha, I’m truly sorry for the times I hurt you, let you down, and caused you pain. You gave me love, support, patience and kindness that I’ve never received before. I take responsibility for my mistakes, knowing that some things cannot simply be undone with an apology”
He added: “Thank you for the 3 years, the memories, the lessons, the love, and for being part of my story. I will always respect you as the mother of our children and appreciate the chapter we shared”
‼️Kaizer Chiefs legend and TS Galaxy coach, Bernard Parker, admits to personal addiction a day before playing Pirates‼️ pic.twitter.com/tffQtl4RSa
— Xoli Zondo (BScHONS, MBA, PDM) (@XoliswaZondo) October 12, 2026
ADDICTED TO ADULTERY?
On her social media account, Kacha Stepanovic reposted Bernard Parker’s statement.
She also hinted at his alleged infidelity.
She shared on her IG Stories: “Lust and addiction will strip you of your family, your work, your name and everything you built.
“If betrayal was so easy, the devil would be next seated at the throne.. Make sure whatever you do is worth losing it all”.
Kacha is the ex-wife of muso Ntukza, the father of her two sons.
WHAT ABOUT WENDY PARKER?
Bernard Parker’s statement about his personal life and new relationship has left many asking – Where is his wife, Wendy Parker?
The former Bafana Bafana player and the Diski Divas reality TV star married in 2012 and have 2 sons together.
The couple’s last Instagram post together was in 2024 – just two years ago. They have made no mention of a divorce or separation.
Wait a minute 😳 this was 2024!! When did the 3 years start? Rather when did you end things eBoksburg? pic.twitter.com/LHsig48Kxm
— Qiniso (@bosslady_za) October 12, 2026
Wendy still uses the IG handle @Mrs_WParker.