Psychologist Allison Keating answers your queries about life and relationships
“We haven’t gone out in years together, as I gave up organising date nights for us” © Getty Images
Question: Hi Allison, I’m with my husband for over 20 years. He was diagnosed with ADHD five years ago, around the same time one of the kids was diagnosed. I thought this would be a huge relief to me, and him, as it took years for him to realise that he needed an assessment.