Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein are officially dating (it’s “casual” for now) after literal years of rumors, speculation, source reports, showmance claims, and major thirst on the part of Brett. There’s a lot of lore, so let’s get into it—starting with Brett’s crush back in 2019...
Circa December 2019
Brett gushes about J.Lo in Hustlers, saying on his Films to Be Buried With podcast, "Fucking hell...50! She's 50! I love her... I've never wanted to be cuddled more. That is one of the best cuddles...give me one of your special cuddles."
I think we can all agree he could not be less chill.
September 17, 2024
News breaks that J.Lo and Brett have been cast in Office Romance.
March 9, 2025
Filming starts on Office Romance, and Brett and J.Lo are spotted at Oh, Mary! Naturally, dating rumors kick off.
March 10, 2025
A source tells the Daily Mail that J.Lo finds Brett extremely hot..
“After a very tough start to 2025, Jennifer can’t wait to start a new project and it certainly helps that she will be working with a very handsome and smart star like Bret,” they muse. “He is one hot ticket and a real class act with talent to back it up—he not only acts but he writes amazing scripts. He is like the younger, better, British version of Ben. She thinks he is very cute.”
This source also notes that J.Lo’s ex Ben Affleck "knows who Brett is, he is plenty aware. Brett is younger and smarter than Ben. It will irk him for sure.”
April 7, 2025
J.Lo and Brett are spotted filming Office Romance in New York City.

May 18, 2025
Filming wraps, and a source tells DeuxMoi that J.Lo and Brett were seen “canoodling in Cayo Levantado (in the Dominican Republic) at their Office Romance wrap party,” and that they snuck “off to a private cabana to be alone.”
INNNNTERESTING.
October 15, 2025
Andy Cohen asks Jennifer Lopez to name her favorite on-screen kiss of all time, and she wastes no time saying, “I just did a movie with Brett Goldstein and I’d say he was the best kisser.”
January 11, 2026
J.Lo and Brett both attend the Golden Globes and are photographed sharing a moment.

