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Finding a boyfriend or girlfriend when living in New York City can seem impossible. It feels like every other person has a dating disaster tale to tell, and now, there’s data to back up that hypothesis.
According to new data from ResX, 58% of New Yorkers revoke their tables of two, with the peak window being Fridays between 4 and 5 pm.
Since when did not showing up to dates become a trend? I’ve had my fair share of romantic misadventures (heck, I published a whole book about them), and one of the most important things I learned along the way was keeping an open mind. The first step is a leap of faith, sitting at the table and letting the conversation flow, which, yes, is easier said than done.
Luckily, we’re here to help. If you’re stuck on what to talk about, or the first date ice-breaker questions start to run dry, Esther Perel Where Should We Begin? Card Game is the perfect backup plan.
Esther Perel Where Should We Begin? Card Game
Designed for date night, the deck of cards encourages storytelling and deeper conversations without having too think too much about new prompts. The small box is easy enough to take on the go and stash in your purse while going for dinner and drinks. It comes with 200 cards and one six-sided die. Play with just your date, or bring in a group of up to six people.
Sample prompts include, “My latest crush is…”, “I owe an apology to…” and “When I notice myself getting older, I…”
There’s a great mix of lighthearted and more thoughtful cards depending on how the conversation is flowing leading up to the game.
It’s also worth mentioning that the product was carefully curated by Esther Perel, a best-selling author and psychotherapist known for her wise takes on relationships and intimacy. She also has a podcast and an active Instagram channel with frequent musings on romance.
With her expertise in a small, pocket-sized card box, your first date will surely be a success.
Don’t let yourself become part of the statistic — showing up is the first step.
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This article was written by Carrie Berk, Commerce Reporter for the New York Post. Carrie specializes in New York City-ready fashion finds for every style, age and budget. Combing the internet’s sale sections, brand collaborations, seasonal trends, timeless staples and lookalike styles, she makes recommendations that stand the test of time in your wardrobe – without breaking the bank. Before joining The Post full time in 2026, her work appeared in HuffPost, Women’s Health, Newsweek and more.